Label The Pretend
How you can help a child get comfortable with the idea of pretend play.
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Challenging Moment: When pretending feels like a trick or an uncomfortable distortion of what is real to a child, they may miss out on the rewards of imaginary play.
A Strategy to Try: Label The Pretend
Often this can be eased by overlabeling everything as “pretend”. When a child objects to a peer calling a block a “cake”, a caring adult can invite that child to join the pretending by confirming that it’s a block, but sharing that the peer is pretending it’s a cake. “It’s a real block and it’s now it’s also pretend cake! I’m going to take a pretend bite.”
What Happens: The child is less likely to leave or avoid the experience of pretend play, and more likely to stay engaged.
